Monday, March 30, 2015
Why Parents Need This Book :” The Behavior Techniques For Smart Parents” by Troy C. Stewart, Sr.
The Behavior Techniques For Smart Parents is a helpful guide for Parents looking to change some old habits that have been gradually molding the child and parent relationship for a long time. Without this parental guide, the old way of address children behaviors becomes a major task. In the short term children’s bad behaviors are kept at a seemingly controllable level until a parent’s emotions takes over. Over time, a Parent’s level of frustration becomes tiresome, and that on time, Oh No ! …it happens, the Parent “looses their cool” with their child.
Not only is loosing your cool as a Parent the absolute wrong approach, it’s not a constructive resolution to behavioral challenges. I’ve worked in the mental health industry as a clinical practitioner, and consultant. I’ve heard some interesting stories how Parents simply give in to emotional challenges stemming from children who have their Parents all “figured out.” Do You know what I mean ? Don’t worry, I’ll gladly elaborate on this topic.
If you are a Parent who is attempting to change a child’s bad behavior, the worst thing you can do is give in effort to avoid conflict or more bad behaviors. Children are born innocent but they learn from their environment like you did, and continue to do as well. If a Parent is giving the child what she or he wants when the child is demonstrating bad behavior, then the bad behaviors will continue. The critical reason why bad behaviors continue is because bad behaviors work. Bad Behaviors serve a purpose a convenient purpose for a child. The purpose of all bad behaviors are to achieve something or avoid something. That’s It !
When Parents ask a child to do something, and the child throws a “temper tantrum,” a Parent is likely to give their child what he or she wants because rewards delay bad behaviors. The main issue is that rewards don’t resolve the bigger issue, and that’s why bad behaviors delay instead of coming to a complete stop. To understand this principle, you have to accept the fact that behavior medication is a process. Generally, a Parent must set the standards, and do not accept bad behaviors as the standard. Parents must initiate the standard, and as the child demonstrates good behavior by not engaging in bad behaviors, then, the Parent should reward the child for doing so.
When a child demonstrates the bad behavior, the child should be prompted, and encouraged to engage in a good behavior. When a child continues to engage in bad behavior, the Parent should provide a positive response but maintain a neutral demeanor. Also, Parents should give the child reasonable consequences to discourage children from repeating bad behaviors. Bad behaviors will likely get worse before they get better. Behavior modification is a learning curve for children. Teaching them the right way is better for them in the long run. Even though a good behavior may seem difficult for them, it will be a lot easier for you and them in the long run. Just remember that allowing bad behaviors in children is dysfunctional, and will be harder to modify as their development stages change.
To continue this discussion, and effective behavior techniques, purchase “The Behavior Techniques For Smart Parents,” this book will provide you with the essential techniques to address your child’s bad behaviors. Don’t Let Another Day Go By Without Addressing This Issue ! You’re the Child’s Parent or Guardian, Then It’s Time To Act Like It But Be Smart !...
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